Advice for dating a beautiful woman
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by Allen Thompson Perhaps you've heard of The Perfect 10. Well, my fellow Don Juans, let me assure you that despite what you may have read or heard, there's no such thing as The Perfect 10. Not one woman on this huge planet of ours even comes close to our image of The Perfect 10. But the thing you have to remember is that one's perception of physical beauty is completely subjective. There are no objective standards for female beauty that every guy subscribes to. The unfortunate fact is that everyone tends to view the world in a very egocentric fashion. We believe that what we perceive as attractive, beautiful, and stunning, others also perceive the same way. One lady that everyone agrees is absolutely stunning. In fact, I doubt you'll be able to find a lady in the entire bar that even half your buddies think is a 10. I'm not attracted to them at all, and they'd certainly get no special treatment from me.
A woman so stunningly beautiful that guys literally throw themselves at her feet. Yet the myth of the enchanting, irresistible Perfect 10 is extremely common among men, especially younger men. "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder." And I'm not just talking about different cultures here. We believe, quite incorrectly, that the women who take our breath away, also take the breath of every other guy on the planet. You probably won't even be able to find a lady that everyone agrees is an 8 or 9. In my own special little world they're just ordinary women and would be treated as ordinary women.
A woman so amazing, so breath-taking, that she can have any man she wants, any time she wants... She lives in her own special little world, a world most of us can't even imagine -- everything is good there, everything is easy. She rarely has to pay for anything because people are always giving her things, buying her things, bringing her presents. "This Perfect 10 walked into the bar and every head in the place turned." "You have to use a different strategy when approaching an incredibly beautiful woman, because she's used to guys throwing themselves at her and doing whatever she wants." "She rarely gets approached by guys because they're intimidated by her beauty." "Don't even bother pursuing a 10 unless you've got a lot going for you (money, fame, looks). (You probably know that in some cultures, the fatter a lady is, the more beautiful she is perceived to be.) Yet, the myth of The Perfect 10 - that absolutely stunning woman that no man can resist - is very prevalent these days. Invariably when you or one of your buds picks out a lady and declares triumphantly for all to hear that she is absolutely perfect - and then waits for all to agree - someone in the group will respond, "No way. She's okay I guess, but I'd give her about a 6." You will be amazed, no stunned, at the women your buddies feel are Perfect, and they'll be equally stunned at you. On my particular scale of physical beauty, she's about an 8. And I certainly wouldn't fall all over myself trying to impress them.
Of course, getting really good with women isn’t easy. But just because it’s not something you can do in an afternoon doesn’t mean that it has to be to make the most of her genetic gifts and spend the time at the gym, the spa, the mall, the hairdresser, and so on. They think that these women are all vain, or unintelligent, or shallow (or they say that that’s what they think – usually they just resent a history of rejection from beautiful women).
Of course, some beautiful women do have horrible personalities.
Dating delightful girls can truly help the personality of a man.